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I used to use bearroulette all the time, but it hasnt been working for weeks. Bear411 used to have a random cam thing but they shut it down. And bearchatroulette never has anyone on it. Where do you guys go to jerk off with strangers on the internet?


I wish there was a bear dedicated one… even though im a chaser myself… either way boysroulette sometimes have some.

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For a long time I thought about how useful it would have been for me to receive good advice about what it means to come into adulthood as a gay person in the world. How much I would have appreciated to hear about what it means to live in and survive in a world filled to the brim with homophobia and deeply hostile to gay people. I think more than likely I was not alone in this. SO! Let's have a nice advice thread since there's quite a bit of young people who browse these boards.

Ask questions about the Gay Lyfe, what you're worried about, concerned with or wondering about, the closet, coming out, friendships, relationships, work, pride, bars, etc…

Rules: Let's keep this as a general advice thread. If one specific topic causes derailment or we get too off on a tangent please make an individual thread.


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Due to my lasy "art de vivre" personality, i never had any other choice but to be who i was, whatever my surroundings. But my social reality, though deprived of obvious Homosexual official representations other than caricatural ones at the time of my youth ( 70's-80's ), was a very confortable one so i'll never know if things would have been the same for me anywhere else ( and not necessarilly too far: Italy is WAY harder on the matter when the Homo question becomes a public one ). Anyway, i'd say you have to be the truer possible to your nature to achieve something as a decent life: it's a deal you make with yourself and it goes WAYYY beyond the matter of sexual preferences, identities,Etc… Work to become a useful positive part of society ( professionally and socially ) and you're alfway there: you'll eventually find acceptance for WHO you are, and not only that fucking "tolerance" for who you fuck with (How i hate this notion associated to so-called " minorities"!). You don't have to scream your sexual preferences to the whole world to exist: just trying to be yourself will allready be a challenge and get you plenty enough of foes just because " you don't fit". The matter of sexuality is usually just an easy way to pin you out in the crowd of rebellious cheeps: let's stop them reducing us to that.


My advice: you are never going to make everyone happy, and you're going to find yourself in a lot of situations where you don't want to please. If coming out to your parents will hurt them, then so be it. If someone wants to have sex with you and you don't, or do stuff with you that you don't want to do, say no and mean it. Don't let other people make decisions for you unless you are acutely aware of the implications and prepared for them. Be very explicit with what you want and don't want, like or dislike, in your relationships, whether it's with friends, romantic/sexual partners or work. The sooner you clear any ambiguity, the better, and the less likely it'll be to bite you in the ass later.

If you're in a difficult situation, e.g. you're still financially dependent upon a homophobic family or work environment, get out if you can (and realize that you have more options than you think). There are a ton of LGBT resources in practically every state that have in-depth guides on how to deal with your situation, where to go and how to become independent. Even if you don't live in the States, there are often still resources for you to contact. Leaving a familiar environment for an unfamiliar one is terrifying, but it's significantly better than the prospect of living your adult life surrounded by people who hate, disrespect and potentially threaten you. If you're not yet at an age where you can get independent, you can still contact those same resources for support, and to meet with other gay youth. It's important to realize you're not alone, there are many more like you who will understand what you're going through, including people near you. Even if you live in a violently homophobic country, there's still a gay community in hiding there, and trPost too long. Click here to view the full text.


Addendum: pretty much any gay event, whether it be Pride, Folsom, P-town, IML, etc., is going to require preparation. You will have to plan your itinerary weeks or months in advance, set aside money (and be realistic about how much you can afford to spend), set yourself a schedule, bring supplies, maintain strict standards of hygiene and, if it comes to that, test yourself after sex and keep contact with the people you've slept with (and warn them if you might have given them an STD, no matter how embarassing that might be for you). Events like these are hotspots for diseases (most of them mild, though, like the flu), so make sure your shots are in order. Make sure the next few days after those events let you either recuperate at work or not work at all, not just because you might get sick, but because events are fucking exhausting. Get your rest before and after, because during you might sleep very little, if at all.

Events like these are also a perfect opportunity to make lasting friends and integrate yourself in the gay community and its various subcultures. Chances are you will associate at least with one (e.g. bara, bears, etc.), and it's almost certain there's a community for that, which means there are also likely events. You should not feel obligated to attend these, and you don't need to attend events to integrate with those communities, but if you do (and prepare accordingly) you're in for tremendous fun.

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Okay so I was curious how to purchase stuff on dijiket id I live in america, does it work, do I need a membership, what happens after I download the file, etc?


This guide still works somewhat, just replace the first link with http://www.sutowebmoney.com/


You can also check if what you want is on dlsite.com, which has a smaller selection than the big sites, but it accepts international credit cards.


You can buy from there as a guest user. For that you just need a vendor for either Bitcoin or Bitcash, like this person said >>4457
After purchase you'll be directed to a download page and get assigned to password for that file. Maybe even the option for getting mailed to download link perhaps? Never bought as guest user, so not 100% sure.

As a member though you get so-called DiGi-points for every purchase. Those you can use later on, but of course no combination with electronic money possible. Creating yourself an account will require to get a bit tricky though(faking and address and telephone number). At least it was like that some years ago…

Better options are of course booth, dlsite or torusell because those accept credit cards around the world.
torusell sometimes less censored, dlsite usually same as digiket and booth occasionally even more censored compared to digiket(moritake sells more censored versions of his games at booth compared to the digiket versions). Dependent on the artist.


Does anyone know if the japanese site for dlsite accepts american credir cards cause I swear it wasnt taking it just the english site was.


Only if you create yourself an account first

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I just wanna start a discussion thread about smut artist who have an odd style of art. This is NOT a bully thread, just a discussion to critique their style… Not to berate them.

I've have been going back and forth, left and right on the Internet and I've come across some nsfw artist who have a weird style in heir art, whether it's just monotone or overly extreme. AND there are other long running artist who've we've seen hasn't changed their style, meaning that their ghastly works haven't improved over the years.

Needed to get this off my shoulders
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I think anon meant those cheap tricks deviantart people use to have attention of larger fandons using tags, like paint a random character hair blue and call it "humanized sonic the hedgehog"…


Or he means their tendency to have the same faces and bodyshapes which is something that's a problem for artists in general.




More like coucheverybaraartistcough

Tagame in particular has about 3 recurring faces: young man face, skinny mature man face, and heavy set mature man face. Sometimes, he even gives his characters similar hair styles, resulting in the alien from Planet Brobdingnac looking like Mike from My Brother's Husband, or the gay guy from The Winter Fisherman Lodge looking like Yaichi from the same manga


I just said it's a problem with artists in general. Dunno why you're all insisting on pointing it to specific people.

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Does anyone else feel there's a lack of attention given to male body disorders?

I know it's a little weird to bring it up here given how everyone here is here BECAUSE we are attracted to hypermasculinity, but I do find it odd that everyone brings attention to this kind of thing with women, but not with men…..

What do you all think? It's a weird double standard that I just don't seem to understand….. not that I understand most double standards, but it's just so blatantly obvious……. right?
So then what makes people care when it's women and not when it's men?
Anyway, I don't know where my fixation on my body's flaws came from but I'm quickly growing tired of it. Anyone else have terrible self image or am I the only ugly duckling in the raft?
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oh look at you and your wanton adolescent misogyny, how cute.

wait. not cute. not cute at all. the word i was thinking of is "appalling".

bye becky.


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>You're not interested in proof
>If proven wrong are you 100% willing to admit it?
Sure. Just provide me with all that evidence you have, I'm still waiting on it and tend to change my mind based on figures rather than feels.

>You do understand that prior to tumblr's existence people have been talking about the patriarchy right?

I'm certain that's possible. However, tumblr is responsible for the new wave of "MUH PATRIARCHY" the same way it's partly responsible for the cancerous third-wave feminism revival. Just because it didn't spawn it doesn't mean it didn't cause a resurgence through circlejerking.

>it takes work NOT to see it.

Seeing the patriarchy is essentially looking for things you want to see and going "Look! The patriarchy did this!" More sensitive and better made products are priced a little higher and in pink? CLEARLY THE PATRIARCHY. Seriously, why not just buy the shitty "male" variant if it upsets you that much?


Do you really not see the problem of saying "There's all that evidence out there, but you can go find it yourself?" Can you not see how it looks like you have absolutely nothing, but refuse to admit it by saying "Do your own legwork"?

>A ludicrous strawman

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Huh, I stand corrected: Islamophobia isn't just a buzzword, it's a genuine phobia. Still, doesn't change that fatphobia isn't real; you can be afraid of muslims given the current political climate, but not of someone who can eat an entire cheesecake in one sitting by themselves.


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>not understanding that "phobia" in this context refers not to being "afraid of" but "unwarrantedly disdainful of"

just keep trying, babe, you'll get there eventually. i believe in u.


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>but not of someone who can eat an entire cheesecake in one sitting by themselves.

Girl, if you haven't done that, and you don't have a legitimate medical reason not to, then you cannot consider yourself alive. Cheesecake is like the best thing in the world.

Also, you ladies have been busy while I was away. So much green text, so pretty.

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(Picture not mine.) I've been tempted to go through my pixiv favorites and tag bara stuff as ガチムチ (gachimuchi), since as we know, Japanese bara artists today usually never call it "bara." But where does "gachimuchi" actually overlap with "bara" as we tend to call it? I'd read that "gachimuchi" means "muscle and fat," alluding to off-season body builders that are attractive to gay men, or something like that. But does it mean "muscle *and* fat" always together, or does it "muscle and/or fat?" Is it inappropriate to call something ガチムチ if it has muscle but almost no fat, or fat but almost no muscle? Or is it really about all the masculine guys gay men find attractive, even if they sometimes don't have much visible fat or muscle? Let's talk about it.
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If you can be patient enough then scribble down all of your questions in one paragraph. I'll then take them with me to Comiket in summer and ask several artists myself. Just a suggestion.


i mean


is it really that hard for you people to just accept that the Japanese terminology just isn't as rigid as we want it to be?


No, it's not that hard to accept. Languages are different, words have different subtler uses, etc. I was just hoping there *might* be something that fit the same meaning.


Well you got many comments, a lot of material that answers your question ;)


Artwork by CaptainGerBear also falls directly into the gachimuchi category.

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Hey, Bara! Do you remember that story about young guy and his older love interest who works with him? That was like some kind of fanfic? Any info what happened with them?


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>that story about young guy and his older love interest who works with him?

That's like….. plot trope numero uno honey.


was it a fanfic or was it a comic? more info plz


could you have been any more vague? that's like, most bara manga

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So what are you guys' thoughts on digital piracy? Digital piracy of bara works in particular.
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Just grab what you can and just leave it at that. Do not spread it around at other places, that alone "helps"
Then one day if you're still into this and have better financial capabilities you might want to support your favorite artists.


It depends. There are certain artists (whose work I like, and are readily available on booth or dlsite) whose new releases I've always bought since actually getting an income of any description, but still I'd say that 90%+ of my porn is pirated.


why do you said its an absurd idea?


because we're not talking about mass produced media


I think it doesn't really matter. I mean whoever wants to support them will, and who don't, won't. Even if you were to download first, your mind is always set on buying something.
Although that doesn't apply to bad stuff.

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Hey y'all.
For a while I've been wanting to design a Bara fighting game called King of Fighters because… well who wouldn't wanna see big bulging muscles being tenderized? lol
In any case, the synopsis of the game would be the rulers of a fictional Earth trying to take over, you as the player would challenge kings, emperors, military leaders, etc. on your way to conquering the world.
The fighting aspect of the game would be very similar to other fighting games, with some sort of gimmick to make the gameplay a bit unique.

So my questions are:
>What type of ruler would you want to see in it?
>What are you into? (asses, pecs, giant dicks, etc.)
>Would you want bikini armor for all the characters?
>Do you think three different color swaps would be enough?
>What do you think of "The King" character I sketched?

Please leave your thoughts and suggestions, I really appreciate it in advance!

PS. Sadly, my furry skills are null so they're out of the question (for now.)
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No worries, I get you.


>What type of ruler would you want to see in it?
A pirate themed one would be nice
>What are you into? (asses, pecs, giant dicks, etc.)
Asses, pecs, body hair, thighs
>Would you want bikini armor for all the characters?
Sure, as alt costumes. I'd prefer it if their main attire was a bit more subtle
>Do you think three different color swaps would be enough?
>What do you think of "The King" character I sketched?
Looks good
In order of preference: Blond>Brunet>Redhead

By the way, do you think this'll come to fruition? Because making a fighting game is a pretty lofty goal, in my opinion.


Good advice, Anon.


I know it's early but how is it coming along?


hows the progress on this game going? :O

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Hey all,

I've recently been writing some fantasy erotica in a D&D setting (going so far as to use D&D 5E character sheets, and writing a little campaign to use as the storyline). However, I've never written erotica before.

I've read a lot of fiction, good and bad. I have NOT read a lot of good erotica… mostly bad.

So, getting to the topic: does anyone have any GOOD fantasy smut they'd suggest to someone who wants to improve their own writing?

When I say good I mean: fleshed out characters, real motivations behind their actions, etc. Fantasy stories that would be fun and interesting even if there wasn't sex.

For what it is worth, my current story is about a human wizard and an orc blacksmith. The orc is the top, but the human is the more sexually experienced one and a power bottom. I was leaning toward exploring BDSM themes later as their relationship develops where the orc is a sub and the wizard is a dom.

Thanks in advance if you can provide anything!
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Dunno if I should make a new thread on this so…
Do you guys have any idea of some good RP forums or what not? I'd like some fantasy setting story-driven RP thing. I'd like to put my world-building sketches and plans to some use as apparently I'm too lazy to write anything by myself.


I got a lot of nice stories bookmarked somewhere, I'll post some links later


I recently bought a few very good novels from amazon and would gladly share them here, thing is I can only access them via kindle cloud reader and there is(I think) no option to download as pdf. Or is there?


This reminds me, I've been dabbling with a story on CHYOA: https://chyoa.com/story/Auction-House.8559
Be gentle.


Calibre can convert the proprietary amazon file format to an open format like mobi or epub. There must be some tutorials on the internet as I haven't tried it for myself (all my ebooks are pirated or free).

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